1) Select a date
2) Select a time
3) Click "Select Date" to go to the second page
4) Enter your personal information and click "Book Appointment"

You will receive Emailed confirmation of your appointment

On the date of your appointment you will receive a reminder

If you need to cancel PLEASE cancel at least 48 hours ahead of time (cancellations with less than 48 yours may forfeit the session).

This community and the offer to coach you here rather than in private is for a number of reasons:

1. Begin by understanding that the ONLY people who are able to read Journals are paying Members. Please know your journals are NOT public.
   
   
   
2. One of the MOST POWERFUL ways you can begin to change you dating is by choosing powerful transparency and vulnerability. First off: to yourself.
   
   Nobody is worried about your dating more than you. The rest of the community are in this just as deep as you are and they are worried about themselves... not you.
   
   No one can be any more comfortable with you than you are. And if you cringe to speak truth aloud... you have to understand - no, you need to expect that your dating will not improve any better than it was in the past. Radical changes in dating begin with radical changes in ourselves, beginning with honesty, transparency and vulnerability.
   
   You cannot find someone who values and loves you by controlling how and when you decide to show yourself. I understand this is scary. I understand you feel uncomfortable. I understand people around you do not date like this. Indeed they do not. Which is why so many of them are unhappy about their relationships, having them for 3 weeks, or 3 months or 3 years... before they both realize they don't really like each other.
   
   Let's get that out of the way right from the beginning: Just. Be. You. Allow yourself to be as you are and practice courageous vulnerability. It will radically change your dating.
   
   
3. Many of the challenges of dating are true for most of us. By discussing these common challenges in a group we both learn from other and allow others to learn by watching us. ALL of our dating improves as we recognize and learn from the common challenges we all go through. You may see me refer you to posts in other’s threads, just as I may refer others to read through yours. We all rise together.
   
   
   
4. It allows us to practice being authentic and transparent. Our dating will only be as good as we are able to be authentic and transparent. Hiding who you are, being afraid to talk about your real feelings or real life ALL get in the way of you making a REAL connection with others. One of the first things that we have to do if we want better dating is REALLY show how we are and get over the fear of being the unique, maybe quirky and different person we are (or fear we are). Of COURSE you are unique – that is your light. Let it shine by practicing being authentic and vulnerable here.
   
   
   
5. It illustrates your journey. By posting regularly you help yourself see your dating journey as a progression – you will reinforce your realizations and discoveries; you will be able to compare your prior beliefs to your dawning knowledge and you will see your progression. Likewise, if you are stuck, you will see the repetition of the areas you are stuck in – and seeing this is incredibly valuable in helping you get past that self-defeating behavior.
   
   
   
6. Efficiency. Can you message me privately, one-on-one? Yes! I absolutely offer one-on-one attention. But it costs CONSIDERABLY more than your Membership here. By all clients posting here it makes it FAR easier for me to get you the attention and advice that will make a difference in your dating. Although one-on-one coaching can be much more powerful (and fast), many are not yet that serious they are willing to invest that much money into learning new powerful ways to date. By compiling all Members here, I can offer you a more affordable price and more easily stay up to date with what you are doing in your dating, more easily provide you direction and advice. That being said, when you’re ready to invest more in yourself DO as me about one-on-one coaching.
   
   
   
7. “But what if what I need to share is very sensitive / embarrassing / private!?” There is a feature in the Forum response field that allows you to post particularly embarrassing or sensitive information privately. If you need to post something very private or sensitive, please use the “Post Privately” button as seen in the attached photo.
   
   
   

Thank you for your willingness and courage to begin to make changes that sometimes feel uncomfortable. By giving yourself to the ability to learn over other’s shoulders, to read other’s journeys that may hold answers for yourself and to make the process efficient, it is easier to get you the advice and direction you need to make your dating successful!

Sometimes things happen - Members do not write down the appointment they made to remind themself, people forget, sometimes events interrupt life.

If you scheduled this and missed your appointment, my condolences. Unfortunately, there is no way to just reschedule for free, however you are welcome to reschedule at my normal rate of $100 US and I would be happy to schedule another time.

I set that time aside for you, declining other paid coaching, to specifically focus on you and your dating. I’m sorry that you missed your opportunity. It might be the right time for you to examine how important your dating is to you – if you are not even showing up to improve your dating… no one else can make your dating better and simply belonging to a community – without your willingness to take action – won’t magically improve your dating.

It's an important opportunity. It is our actions and the results of our actions that teach us and your missing your appointment holds an important lesson for you:

• Is it really not that important to you to find love?
• Are you afraid that you will not ever find it so you have given up already by not even showing up for yourself?
• Are you afraid to show up on video and be present to talk with someone - even though you pretend that you want to meet someone special?
• Is your life so full of disorganization or chaos that you are not in a place to actually work for the love you say you want?
• Is there an incongruency - you say you want love, but maybe you only want fun... or companionship... or attention... or the feeling of being wanted or valued... but you DO NOT want all the work it would take for an actual, real relationship?

Look deep at what happened: you were offered something that was worth $100 US, that could incredibly help you meet the relationship you wanted... and you missed it. Don't be in denial: if you can learn the lesson of what happened, you change your action in the future to STOP sabotaging or missing out on the opportunities that are all around you to find the relationship you claim you want.

Your success depends on YOUR willingness to take seriously your need to change what you do, because you don’t like what your past actions have brought you. New dating success requires new dating action.

Please feel free to email me at support@DatingSuccessEngine.com to reschedule and I'll send you a link for payment at my normal rate of $100 US.

In the meantime, after you examine your commitment to your dating and taking new action for new results, let's dig in HERE in this community to get you the dating you deserve (and are committed... uh... REcomitting to)

Your Partner in Success,

~ Mark

Members are invited to initiate a "Journey" thread in a private forum by posting their current dating goals, then updating their thread how they are currently looking for, matching and meeting dates, along with their questions, actions, and results while Mark walks with them, step-by-step, providing direction, insights and steps guiding their dating to a greater success in dating than most people can imagine.

With 8 billion people in the world, no matter what qualities in a match you want, there are likely between 10,000,000 and 100,000,000 INCREDIBLE matches in the world. The problem really isn't how to find a quality match, the problem is how to you efficiently eliminate 7.99 billion MISMATCHES.

As Members learn to quickly and easily eliminate the time, energy and worst - LOVE wasters of mismatches while learning to quickly clear the field and efficiently identify PROFOUND dating matches, often with qualities deeper and more important that a Member had even realized they needed.

With 8 BILLION potential matches in the world, the question becomes, "Why AREN'T you meeting quality matches!?"

The answer is, "Because of the way you date."

Dating success in non-intuitive - that is, quality dating does NOT work the way people wished it did. If the way you were dating was working... you wouldn't be in a dating group, looking for dating advice. And, if you want different dating results you have to date differently than you have been.

Mark unveils a different way to date. Mark talks about how dating ACTUALLY works, not how we wished that it worked.

It is not uncommon for Members who have been alone for years to find themselves suddenly matching with multiple, quality matches after working with Mark for only a few months.

If you'd like more information about Mark's qualifications please refer here.

This Community has an open forum for Dating, private forums for Members to work with Mark Farmer on their dating success, activities and events!

Joining opens up all of the possibilities of the Community, especially the opportunity to work directly with Mark Farmer on finding whatever they want, whether that is fun for the weekend or "the one" for a lifetime. 

Joining requires a credit or debit card, cash or bank transfer, Western Union, M-Pesa or other form of payment.

Standard Membership includes:

• Weekly Member’s Only Q&A
• Private Live Subscriber-Only Events
• Subscriber-Only Videos
• Dating Worksheets, Tools and Instructions
• Private Community Coaching for Your Success
• Your Profile Featured on a US Dating Community
• Account reviews to Identify Probably Scammers
• Dating Profile Review so your Dating Profile attracts only the BEST matches and exactly what you want!
• Occasional WhatsApp Support

Premium Membership includes:

• Weekly Member’s Only Q&A
• Private Live Subscriber-Only Events
• Subscriber-Only Videos
• Dating Worksheets, Tools and Instructions
• Private Community Coaching for Your Success
• Your Profile Featured on a US Dating Community
• Account reviews to Identify Probably Scammers
• Dating Profile Review so your Dating Profile attracts only the BEST matches and exactly what you want!
• Unlimited WhatsApp Support
• International Dating Success Book
• Weekly, 50 minute, video coaching sessions

Payment can be made, using the linked titles of each play above, by using any of the following:

• credit cards
• debit card
• M-Pesa or USSD
• Some other mobile payment cards
• Google pay
• Apple pay
• Cash or bank transfer
• Western Union or MoneyGram
• or crypto

If using cash transfer or other way, please reach out with your Email and which method you prefer; and I will Email instructions!

Once verified I will send you a welcome letter along with additional information and we will start working to find you the love that you deserve!

Congratulations on committing to international dating success and finding the match of your dreams!

Don't hesitate to let me know if you have issues, when you post the MTCN transaction number for me, I will be able to verify and you will receive a welcome letter!

The price will be going up soon as the group is filling up quickly.

Would love to have you as a part of the group and work with you to get you to love that you deserve, Join NOW!

1. You can only add or change your profile photo after you have published several posts. New members do not have access to post profile photos
2. Ensure you are logged in
3. Go to the site's Community
4. Locate "my profile" at the top and click on it; once clicked it will take you to your profile
5. At the top, right of your profile will be an icon that, when you hover over it will display "edit profile," (photo 2). Click on this
6. In your profile edit screen there is a section to upload or select an "Avatar." Use this section to upload the profile photo of your choice. Please note that profile photos should not be obscene, graphic or inappropriate as determined by this site's administrator, otherwise the photo would be removed.

For all other open forums please initiate new threads using the "Add Topic" link located at the top of each forum, filling out the required fields to start a new topic! See the attached photo for more help!