❤️ Welcome to Dating Success Engine and International Dating Success Community ❤️ 

Dating Success Engine is a community – we are all in this together; this space is meant to be a positive, supportive, safe and friendly space to discuss dating and relationships.

Please note that this is not a place to provide each other advice. The reason most people are single, alone and unhappy is because they were dating the way they were, often the same way their friends tell them to do it. Dating according to popular advice does not work.

Dating Success Engine’s entire purpose is to teach people to date in a way that most people don’t, to find love that most people won’t. I discuss how dating really works, rather than how we wished that it worked.

If You See a Problem or Violation of These Guidelines, Please Report it to an Administrator.

Forum Rules
1. Respect. Keep all comments respectful, positive, supportive, safe and friendly at all times. If you respond on someone else’s thread let it be positive and encouraging. No advice or criticism from other Members, please. We discuss ideas, not individuals. This is a space to discuss your own dating and relationships, not that of other members.

Harassment, bullying, sexualized behavior, shaming, offensive language or expressed intolerance of any kind are not acceptable. Conduct which intimidates, shows hostility or is dismissive towards other members of their beliefs is not appropriate.

2. Privacy. ALL discussion in this community should be kept confidential. If others are repeating or exposing others’ private information or conversations elsewhere you may be banned from the community. Do NOT repeat information – whether taught here or shared here – with others outside of this community.

Dating Success Engine is intended to be a safe, private space to talk about how our dating really works in honest, vulnerable and transparent ways. It is only being transparent and vulnerable that we can examine how our prior actions caused the poor dating we experienced and open ourselves to a new action in dating and relationships. This is space to be open and honest while feeling comfortable sharing thoughts, ideas, and questions.

Protect privacy. Keep in mind this forum is accessible by anyone on the internet, which means if you post private information (email address, phone number, address, etc.), it will be seen by many people and internet tools. Please refrain from sharing personal information or the information of others. Posts containing personal information may be edited or removed.

3. No Spam / Advertising / Self-promotion in the forums. This Community is for dating and relationships. It is NOT for looking for work, money-making “opportunities,” seeking sugar daddies / mommies or babies, psychic or tarot card readings. Advertisements or promotion of goods, services and/or other web sites or links is prohibited. Spamming also includes posting a large number of messages – or multiples of the same thing. Do not posting the same question or information in multiple forums – choose only one that seems the most appropriate.

General Posting Guidelines
1. Please use SEARCH (the 🔎 symbol in the upper, right of every community page) before posting a new question or discussion in any forums except the Women or Men’s dating forums. There is a chance that there has already been a discussion about your topic that might already contain answers or insights for you. By searching first for prior discussion we add to the existing knowledge in one space, rather than spreading information around where it might never be seen. Please use the forum’s search feature first to see if there are already some good threads on the subject – just click the “Search” button at the top right of the page.

2. Be DESCRIPTIVE in your post title. Give a short summary of the topic, question or problem IN THE SUBJECT. Do not use attention getting subjects, they don’t get attention and only annoy people. For instance, YOU SHOULD NOT POST, “Help me, Hello, Very urgent, I have a question!” or “I guess no one loves me.”