I am a Kenyan, lady 43 years young 🙂 and a Christian by faith. I have never been married however i have 2 beautiful daughters 11 year old and 4 year old. I am a nurse and a social scientist. My field of expertise is medical research. I also love entrepreneurship. I am currently into beauty and cosmetics business as a part time job (sole proprietor) which i do for about 2 hours every evening after work before joining my lovely daughters in the evening. This, and my formal employment has enabled me to be financially independent as a single mother. Whenever i am free, I love cooking African dishes – like fresh tilapia served with ugali” among others. I also love gardening. I have a small kitchen garden which has spinach and finger onions. This small garden is made of spiral plastic container, a project I started 4 years ago during the COVID 19 pandemic (2020): I managed to harvest soil from the neighbourhood, bought some spiral plastic containers and made a fantastic garden. I got a certificate on this as one of the innovative people were during the “work from home” guidelines as a measure of keeping social distance during the pandemic. My innovation got attention not only from my country colleagues but also global colleagues on how. My kitchen garden is my second daughter’s agemate :).

 

I am very honest to myself and to those around me and more so to those i love. I am a lady of integrity and hardworking (Millicent means industrious). I have some sense of humour – with the right person. I love listening to gospel music and dancing Rumba music. Generally, i am flexible and can try any other genres :). Most of the time, when the spirit is high, I like celebrating my little wins by buying red sweet wine (fourth street or four cousins) as a dance to some nice rumba in my bedroom. I am funny sometimes 🙂 I borrowed this idea of celebrating small wins from the co-founders of Elizabeth Glaser Pediatrics AIDS Foundation (Suzie Zeegen and Susan) – my former employer.  

 

I am not quick to judge but at the same time, I am currently able to read from a far (6th sensed gifted) to sense red flags from a far. I will not be in a position to entertain men who ask me for my nude photos or show me their nudes. 

 

Note: At my age, i am not willing to give birth anymore, but to collectively nurture our family together as we age.

 

 

The kind of man i am looking for:

Christian, Responsible, someone older than me (44-60) who is done with siring children. i wouldn’t mind adopting his children 1-2 kids if he has. Someone financially stable and has good financial discipline, investment minded, someone who will treat me as a woman and not as his competitor or fellow man 🙂 🙂 Someone who values life, monogamous in relationship, true to himself, with objective/purpose in life. Ready to be accept mistakes, wants his life fulfilled with a woman like me. A man who feels, he is done playing the games and wants to settle down.