THIS.

THIS is why I say you should date somebody between three months and one year before you decide if you want to commit to a relationship with them.

EVERYONE puts on their best face for the first date, for the first weeks … But eventually the façade slips and you see the real person.

And, while a person’s answers to these questions are not more important than their ACTIONS are, a person’s self-awareness, transparency and ability to be vulnerable ARE demonstrated in answers to these questions.

Everyone believes the best about themselves and will tell you the right answers. You, ultimately, want to see their answers through their ACTIONS.

It simply takes between three months and a year before you see who a person really is.

And you have to see the real person before you can decide whether or not you want THAT in your life, whether or not THAT is worthy of the gift of YOU.

Obviously, the depth of the questions depends on how long you have been together and the quality of the relationship. (I don’t recommend asking “How much money do you earn a year?” on the first date 😂) But I DO firmly believe, given a serious relationships, ALL of these questions are fair game and, likely, needed.

For those of you looking for quality, here’s the list – don’t blame the messenger, the wording is Pastor Creflo Dollar’s!

Quality Questions Before You Date Seriously:

• What’s your motive?
• What’s your full name? Is that your real name?
• Do you have your dad’s last name?
• When can I meet your dad?
• Is your dad and mommy together?
• How do you act when you get mad? Do you throw things? Do you cuss around? Do you beat up on people?
• Do you have a job?
• Where do you work?
• How much money do you make?
• How long have you been working now?
• Do you have a bank account?
• How is your credit? Can I see your credit score?
• Do you have a house or do you live in an apartment?
• Do you pay for your gas and your car?
• Do you live with your mom?
• What do you like to eat?
• Do you plan on being fine like that all your life? Or are you planning on getting big?
• How many children do you want to have?
• Will you get upset if we don’t have kids?
• Do you plan on having an inheritance?
• Do you have insurance?
• Can you pay for your funeral if you were to die today?
• How do you look without your makeup? Don’t put any on tomorrow.
• The hat you got it on your head, is that yours? Or did you purchase it? And if you purchased it, is it paid for?
• Are you in debt?
• Are those your eyelashes? Or did you buy those from somewhere?
• You smell good today but what about tomorrow morning?
• Do you believe in taking showers at night or in the morning?
• Do you believe in taking three days off and then taking a shower?
• Are you attracted to men or women?
• Are you trying to marry me because you’re trying to hide something?
• Did your dad commit adultery?
• Did your dad’s dad commit adultery?

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